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My child is a picky eater. What should I do?

Your child's eating habits won't likely change overnight, but the small steps you take each day can help promote a lifetime of healthy eating.

  1. Respect your child's appetite, don't force a meal. This will reinforce the struggle over food and will make him/her associate mealtime with frustration. Give him/her the opportunity to independently ask for more. 
  2. Stick to the routine by serving three meals and two snacks at the same time every day. 
  3. Be patient with new foods; the child needs repeated exposure to a new food until it becomes familiar. 
  4. Encourage your child to stay at the table for the mealtime even if he/she refuses it. Preparing for him/her a separate meal after rejecting the first meal will promote picky eating. 
  5. Make it fun by serving his/her least preferred food in different ways, or along with his/her preferred food. For example, serve veggies in a soup or with a dipping sauce or top his/her cereal with fruits.
  6. Ask for your child's help by letting him/her choose healthy options at the grocery store or encouraging him/her to get involved in food preparation at home. 
  7. Set a good example because your child is more likely to imitate you, so eat what you would like him/her to eat. 
  8. Minimize electronic distractions and let your child focus on eating on a sitting table with the family. 
  9. Don't offer desert as a reward, rather choose designated days for it.1
  10. Limit snacks. The hungrier children are, the more likely they are to eat whatever meal is put in front of them.
  11. Serve small portions. The child might be overwhelmed by large portions of foods that are unfamiliar or not his/her favorite. 
  12. Offer new foods at breakfast time. When your child is usually at their hungriest, he/she might warm up to it faster. 2
  13. Serve drinks only after a main meal because it could affect appetite to food. 3
  14. Discuss with him/her the benefits of certain food and let him/her make their own choices.4

 

Dr. Dany Hamod

Pediatric, Neonatologist

 

1 Children's nutrition: 10 tips for picky eaters. (2020, August 11). Retrieved October 20, 2020, from https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/childrens-health/in-depth/childrens-health/art-20044948
2 Kids, C., 2020. When Your Child Is A Picky Eater - Caring For Kids. [online] Caringforkids.cps.ca. Available at: <https://www.caringforkids.cps.ca/handouts/when_your_child_is_a_picky_eater> [Accessed 20 October 2020].
3 UCSF Benioff Children's Hospital. 2020. Picky Eaters. [online] Available at: <https://www.ucsfbenioffchildrens.org/education/picky_eaters/> [Accessed 20 October 2020].
4 Liao, S. (2016, April 22). How to Handle Picky Eaters: What Parents Can Do. Retrieved October 20, 2020, from https://www.webmd.com/parenting/guide/picky-eater-kids



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